Question
I have a 4 month old cat / kitten that comes from a shelter. She is afraid of both my girlfriend and me and still hides in corners after 2 weeks of being here.
She needs eyedrops and medications, which we need to drip in her eyes and put in her mouth. At the moment we try to pick up the cat and force the eyedrops (have not yet done the medications), but this makes her even more scared of us.
How can we give her her drops (up to 6 times a day) and her medications, while at the same time making her get used to us and getting picked up?
Edit: After 2 days of doing the medication /eyedrops first, and then the bribery, our cat-relation has improved.
Here is a picture of Piep enjoying a toy for the first time
Answer
I am in the exact situation with a newly adopted cat, and the first rule is that you need to get the medication in, scared or not scared. Part of the cat's fear might well be that she knows that she is made helpless by her eye condition, is in pain, or just feels bad. If this cat is out in a large room, consider moving her into a smaller, more isolated area with beds and toys to make her more secure during the treatment. A new house, rooms and other pets are scary enough without being sick too.
So the best thing is to start by matter-of-factly getting the medication done. Then, you can start the bribery. Use petting and/or treats or food right afterward to put a positive spin on this encounter. If she is so scared she refuses, leave a treat there and leave her in her safe room to eat it in peace. That way the scary encounter has a definite ending.
Then go back in about an hour and have some interactions where nothing bad happens. Bribe lavishly--nothing bad can happen with a cat if you spoil them. This should help reduce the fear when you walk in next time to give medication.
And if none of that helps a lot, well, there's time to recover your ground when the kitten is healthy. A healthy kitten bounces back fast.
Answered By - Oldcat