Question
I know this is broad question but I am thinking about adopting a kitten soon. However I started thinking about two for their welfare. However my parents, who live on another side of the world, are a bit terrified:
- Their experience with two cats in single household is that it ends with violence, including sexual, between cats when they grow up even when they were fine as kittens.
- They are a little bit worried about problems with travelling (I don't want to tell them that but I hate travelling and even with one cat I planned to ask a friend to see him/her rather then introduce a cat to stress of international travel).
- They are also worried that, as I am single at this moment, I may have a trouble finding significant other.
- They don't buy the argument about kittens playing with each other when I'm away at work as they think that a single one will just sleep through the day.
What should I do? Are they right? Is there any negative stereotype about singles with two cats (I'm currently in Western US)? Is my rented flat (<900 ft sq) too small for 2 cats?
PS. Cats would be of course sprayed/neutered (already by shelter I believe) and stay-at-home.
Answer
Their experience with two cats in single household is that it ends with violence, including sexual, between cats when they grow up even when they were fine as kittens.
As with most animals: If there aren't any problems in training or regarding health issues etc. multiple cats will get along nicely. Ever heard of full prides of lions? ;) Of course there can be the occasional playing and fighting, but at times we've had three cats at the same time (two male, one female; all neutered) and no problems except the occassional "I want there! No I want! Nah, my place! No! Let's fight!".
They are a little bit worried about problems with travelling (I don't want to tell them that but I hate travelling and even with one cat I planned to ask a friend to see him/her rather then introduce a cat to stress of international travel).
Definitely, try avoiding unnecessary trips, especially longer ones.
They are also worried that, as I am single at this moment, I may have a trouble finding significant other.
As mentioned in the comments. I'm not sure where your parents are from, but apart from phobias or allergies, do you (and they) really think anyone would avoid you just for having cats? Well, as long as you're not like the crazy cat lady from The Simpsons.
They don't buy the argument about kittens playing with each other when I'm away at work as they think that a single one will just sleep through the day.
Spoiler alert: Both would most likely just sleep apart from occasional playing, they have a point there.
Either way, don't make that decision based on what others say or think of you. Considerg how much time and space you have for your pets (if you've got multiple cats they should have a chance to be physically separated for a bit, e.g. at least two rooms) and often ignored how much money you have for them. You not only have to buy more food, you'll also have higher veterinarian bills, etc.
Answered By - Mario